Why care? Live your life!

Frustration. That is what I get when I try to be truthful. It is absurb!
Defensive people, crushed egos and an awkward situation are the left-overs when a friend tries to point out some bad things. And the story keeps unwinding like any other of this kind.
Two senarios. Either they make up at the end or they continue this stupid argument. But it is more than an argument.

It is a careless way of action, a way of impulsive thought and behaviour. Why people are so easily influenced by jugdemental conversations? Why they think that when a friend tells them that they make some bad moves, they get all angry like they were being judged ?
Well, there isn't a person to blame about this, but all. We have made this to ourselves. We have established an interrelated bond between judgement and foes. Even though we expect our friends to be real and truthful, we cannot handle it. It is one of the most controversial issues that human relationships face these days.

So what the 'victims' of this attack say to their friends? Live your own life. Don't care!
Really? Is this how it is going to be from now on?Irritating dialogs?
For me, no. I didn't sign up for this. I don't want to be misunderstood when I try to say the truth about some facts. If someone is unhappy or feels uncomfortable, they should say it to the person's face. Why being so polite and not telling that it feels uncomfortable, but later on humilate that person ,whom to be clear, tried to tell you the truth ?

This is one question I can definately answer by myself. People are whole by themselves. They don't need anyone to tell them what to do or say or feel or whatever. They do as they please. They keep telling that they don't care about what other people think, but they actually do. Everyone does. But they choose to ingore it. And when their friend comes along and points out the bad moves, they feel attacked! The question that I cannot answer is, why? Are we as people so messed-up or there aren't any real realationships?