When you first meet someone and you like them, you feel excited and wonderful about it. New emotions rush through your body and mind and you experience wonderful sensations. These are the first things you feel when you start to appreciate someone and begin to fall for them. As the time goes by, there are two senarios. One is that you don't feel so attached to that person anymore and the excitement is over, or you can't wait to meet them again and look into their eyes and see happiness.
If it is the first, then don't call it love. It is just a crush. Maybe something more, but not love. A crush is something that begins suddenly and intesively but fades quickly along the way. Love is something that grows day by day and becomes stronger and deeper. You love someone when you have experienced some stuff together, rough or good times; it doesn't matter but as long as you go through it together. It can be a friend or a lover. But remember one thing; time not only helps people to bond better but it also has great impacts on their relationships.
Sometimes people get into a rut. And just get used to be with the other person. It happens to everyone. But then, the relationship is in their hands. Only should they want it, it will continue to become stronger and get out from the rut it is in.
The bottom line is that after a period of time, it is in the peoples hands if they want to do something about the deterioration that time causes. If it is love, it will overcome this obstacle and continue. If it is a crush, then it's colors will fade away along with the emotions and feelings.
It doesn't depend on people and circumstances, but weather or not there is will. With will, everything can change, for better or worse.
If it is the first, then don't call it love. It is just a crush. Maybe something more, but not love. A crush is something that begins suddenly and intesively but fades quickly along the way. Love is something that grows day by day and becomes stronger and deeper. You love someone when you have experienced some stuff together, rough or good times; it doesn't matter but as long as you go through it together. It can be a friend or a lover. But remember one thing; time not only helps people to bond better but it also has great impacts on their relationships.
Sometimes people get into a rut. And just get used to be with the other person. It happens to everyone. But then, the relationship is in their hands. Only should they want it, it will continue to become stronger and get out from the rut it is in.
The bottom line is that after a period of time, it is in the peoples hands if they want to do something about the deterioration that time causes. If it is love, it will overcome this obstacle and continue. If it is a crush, then it's colors will fade away along with the emotions and feelings.
It doesn't depend on people and circumstances, but weather or not there is will. With will, everything can change, for better or worse.
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