Life paths & changes

There comes a time when every life goes off course. In this desperate moment you must choose your direction. Will you fight to stay on the path while others tell you who you are? Or will you label yourself? Will you be honored by your choice? Or will you embrace your new path? Each morning you choose to move forward or to simply give up.

Things in life don't come easy and ready for you. Never. You have to fight for what you want and defend your honour and prerogatives. The everyday life is a new battle and a game for each one of us that has to play. But before any game, the players decide their moves and what actions should they make. So should we. Every morning, we have to make small or big decisions for our lives that may affect directly or not our future. With decisions, definately comes change too. No one should be afraid of change as long as the decision he or she have taken, are theirs. It is every man for himself. Everyone of course can give you their opinion, and what they would do if they were in your shoes, but they are not you! We manage our lives the way we want and we change them until they make us feel great about ourselves.

An unfortunate event should not affect us. Even if it is a break up, or something personal, we should set aside the differences and problems, and continue living our lives while trying to solve them. Bad luck in professional affairs or reletionships, is indeed something that could ruin your mood and affect your strength. But for no reason, should you be miserable about it. You single the problem out, and try to solve it without letting it bugging you until it is gone. Life is way too short for us to consider it difficult and complex. So why agonise about things that can happen anytime and to anyone? These issues and problems should be embraced and not hated. Because after all, unfortunate events and mistakes, give us experiences and makes us more mature, so why hate them? There is one thing I've heard; that in the end, everything happens for a reason...